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Sheya ethicsKenneth DeighDisclaimer: As founder of sheya, I have a unique perspective on the developing norms of this community, however, the following is my own compilation and not something that has been "officially" chosen. Nevertheless, the sheya do seem to follow these ethical guidelines. Personal ResponsibilityRealizing that you are esentially responsible for all your choices that bring you into this moment and carry you forward from here. Personal SovereigntyThe other side of the coin of responsibilty. Because you ARE responsible you have the freedom to choose - so choose wisely. No Harm to Self or OtherThis means that we do not act in a way that we know will cause harm to ourselves or others. We may sometimes hurt ourselves or others through our learning process, but to cause harm is a greater issue. Continued Personal GrowthIt's not enough to just talk about it, we need to be actively engaged in our own growth. This may look different for different people. It can mean anything from having a regular daily practice to having a good therapist that you see on a regular basis. Personal IntegrityYou are your ultimate judge. Don't look outside yourself for the knowledge of what is right or wrong for you. You need to take this responsibility yourself and be true to it. Pay Attention/MindfulnessAs much as possible, we try to be awake and aware at all times. This means being in the moment - not focusing on the past of future, but paying attention to what is here and now. Regular Personal PracticeThis is a large part of keeping our personal growth going. While the sheya practice begins with sitting stillness, it can eventually evolve in many directions. Openness to ChangeIf we allow ourselves to become stuck in how we see things, we lose the immediacy of life. Be aware that whatever you believe is true in this moment may or may not be true in the next. Compassion for Self and OtherThis is the other half of the coin from personal integrity. Remember that you - like the rest of us - are a human being. Part of the adventure of being human is a the ability to make mistakes - and learn from them. Accept these opportunities with an open heart. DiscernmentIt is important to see things as they are, without the clouding of ego or wishful thinking. Only by recognizing how things truly are can we begin to change them. [ top ] |